Lets Talk About Domestic Violence and Veterans.

It's important to recognise that many veterans do not engage in domestic violence. It's essential to approach this topic with sensitivity and without stigmatising all veterans. Many veterans are resilient and contribute positively to their communities, but those who are struggling with domestic violence issues need support and access to appropriate resources to address the underlying causes and seek help. It’s also important to remember that individuals of any gender, including male veterans can be victims of domestic violence. While the causes of male veterans becoming victims of DV can vary, there are several factors that can contribute to this issue. Veterans, like anyone else, can experience mental health challenges which may contribute to being victims of DV. If not treated these can lead to emotional and psychological distress, making them more vulnerable to abusive relationships. In some cases, the power dynamics within the relationship may be skewed, with the perpetrator using their military service or training to exert control over their partner. Societal stereotypes and stigmatisation can make it difficult for male victims to come forward and seek help. Some may fear not being taken seriously or worry about their masculinity being questioned. There may be a lack of awareness and understanding about the possibility of male veterans experiencing DV, which can result in fewer support services being available to them. Civilian life can come with financial challenges. Economic stress can contribute to relationship conflicts and violence. As mentioned earlier while some male veterans may experience DV, this is not representative of all male veterans, and many have healthy and supportive relationships. Male veterans who are victims of DV should not hesitate to seek help and support. There are organisations and resources available to assist male victims, including domestic violence hotlines, counseling services, and legal support. Breaking the stigma and increasing awareness of male victims of DV within the veteran community is essential to ensure that they receive the help and support they need to escape abusive situations and heal from the trauma.

Tony Wright CEO Forward Assist